2009年3月3日 星期二



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Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.



A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.

We've added years to life not life to years.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.

We conquered outer space but not inner space.

We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.

We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.

We write more, but learn less.

We plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait.

We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.


If you don't send this to other people....Who cares?

George Carlin

2009年2月14日 星期六


原以為過了年十五便算結束了農曆年“殘不忍睹”的吃相日子,想不到,年十七還有彭亨商會會長拿督斯里林錦勝的一餐!

夠力!這回不跑多兩圈都很難瘦了........

故事還沒有結呢,年十七,有位慷慨和關心老人的餐館老板,約了各報經理去安老院陪老人吃飯..........哈哈!這個年,吃得好..........(苦)。

2009年2月8日 星期日

難得的六年級畢業照


一張難得的六年級畢業照,由謝志敏找出來電郵給我,我謹把它張貼在這裡,大家上來瀏覽吧!需要的,可以留言幾句或下載照片。


謝謝志敏同學的照片。這一次,他作了一件最重要和最有意義的事。讓我們從舊照片中追憶吧!


在找其他同學的同時,你找得到你自己嗎?哈!

2009年1月29日 星期四

同學在心目中的地位


經過新年的聚會,心中感到高興,高興見到一些老同學,風采依然。大家都談得很高興。

我們年初一的聚會,在我家,才有14個人。年初二有16個人,算我貪心吧,我心裡是希望有更大的期望的,當年小學加上中學,同學人數逾百名,16個人的聚會...,有些傷感...。

可是,同學會不是說辦就辦的,大家不是帶老婆回鄉見爹娘,就是跟老婆回家見岳父岳母,同學聚會變成一件很奢侈的事。

我那天向同學作了個建議,如果真為了要見同學一面,可以和先生太太作個協議,輪流回鄉,第一年回鄉,下一個農曆新年就留在關丹見同學。可是我心裡知道,怎麼能夠如此?父母是天地之后最大的呀!

只是奢望吧了,大家不要認真。咱們有緣,自然會再聚。

文輝和家人向大家祝願,願大家平安、幸福!

同學新春聚會







大年初一,一如往年,一些中小學同學都循例在晚間吃了晚飯之后聚一聚。今年的相聚地點有點例外,因為李順成的飯店,自從去年從人煙稀少的米昔拉路搬到阿益布爹路的旺店之后,人潮很多,很吵雜,我們去年談話需要很費力,大家都得提高嗓子,很辛苦,于是建議從今年開始,地點搬到我家。

也好,反正我家門前有有寬大的空地,可以在清涼幽靜的夜裡高談闊論。新年,收到通知短訊和人傳人的都來了,唯一的女生是馮秀桂。翌日,一些沒有來得及在初一相聚的同學,在年初二見面,馮秀桂(她改了名叫馮薛桂)在年初二晚間在我們男生正聚會之際,來電說,有一群女生要見面,我說我們男生正在聚會,女生們听了高興得很,急著要來相會。我說別急,地點太吵雜又窄,另覓適當地點吧。于是,我們在一間人潮較少的mamak店聚會。

年初二這晚,首先是7個男生和7個女生,后來,各自也聯絡了一些同學,最后是8男8女在店裡談得融洽、高興。

大家互問訊息之后,依依不捨的在凌晨1.30am告別。

大家說:明年再會。年初一,晚上9pm在文輝的家。如果,年初一回娘家的女生或回岳母家的男生,無法出席年初一的同學聚會,何妨提供意見,年初二?年初三?在那裡見?

我們期望再相聚,一直到永遠......。

2008年12月31日 星期三

舊的思維的新年快樂

tahun baru? langkah yang lama jua..........pemikiran baru, jangan tipu diri sehingga ia benar-benar melangkah. 舊的思維的新年快樂。

2008年12月11日 星期四

what the world is this?

發現許多人在發表意見時都是以本身為出發,沒有東西是比自己更重要的,所以,社會常發生爭吵;我對你錯的吵個停。

這就是我們被教育成傲慢的一種下場;我們是教育負面的結果,人人都以我慢心為基礎,從不接納別人不同的意見,結果就是,社會越來越不和諧,人與人之間再也不再互相信任。最后,你可以想像到,這世界是一個什麼世界,你再不會見到夜間敞開門戶的人家.....就像六七十年代的我們家鄉下的情況......